Empowerment Through Therapeutic BDSM

Join the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network

Become part of a pioneering community dedicated to healing, personal growth, and empowerment through ethical and trauma-informed BDSM practices.

Transformative Healing Awaits

About the TBCN

The Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network (TBCN) is committed to creating a safe, inclusive, and ethical space for healing and personal growth through BDSM. Our mission is to ensure that all members—clinicians, kink professionals, and consultants—are highly trained and adhere to the highest standards of ethical practice. By fostering a community grounded in consent and therapeutic intention, we aim to empower individuals and support their journey towards healing.

Welcome to the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network Application Page

We are excited that you’re interested in joining the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network (TBCN). Our mission is to create a safe, inclusive, and ethical space for healing, personal growth, and empowerment through BDSM. To maintain the highest standards, all members of the network—clinicians, kink professionals, and educators—must demonstrate mastery in their area of expertise and complete specific training requirements before full acceptance into the network. Are you interested in a dual role? Both clincians and pros are also able to hold the role of Educator provided they meet the qualifications. If your desire is to do both please make sure to fill out the appropriate applications. *NOTE* Statement for Clinicians who also identify as Kink Professionals HERE!

Training Requirements

Before being fully integrated into the TBCN, clinicians and kink professionals must complete specialized training programs designed to ensure the ethical and therapeutic application of BDSM in trauma-informed healing environments. Below, you will find the training requirements specific to each role.

Training Requirements

Clinician Training: Self-Reconciliation Therapy (SRT)

Clinicians who join the network must complete certification in Self-Reconciliation Therapy™ (SRT). This training provides the clinical foundation for working with clients who are navigating trauma, power dynamics, embodiment, and identity within the Therapeutic BDSM™ framework.

The certification includes focused modules on Therapeutic BDSM™, trauma response patterns, ethical collaboration, and working within the tetralogical model. Clinicians learn how to assess readiness, support clients before and after collaborative sessions, and maintain clinical responsibility throughout the process.

Through this training, clinicians develop the skills needed to recognize client needs, coordinate with facilitators and other professionals, and provide grounded therapeutic oversight while the client engages embodied healing work within a structured and consent-based environment.

Certified Faciliatator Training: Applied Therapeutic BDSM

Certified facilitators are responsible for carrying out BDSM scenes within therapeutic contexts as part of the collaborative process. All kink professionals participating in the network must complete certification in Applied Therapeutic BDSM™ to ensure their work is trauma-aware, consent-driven, and aligned with the client’s therapeutic goals.

This training focuses on ethical power exchange, negotiation, scene structure, and the responsibilities of working within a therapeutic framework. Facilitators learn how to collaborate effectively with clinicians, recognize shifts in a client’s capacity during a scene, and maintain clear communication before, during, and after sessions.

Through this certification, facilitators develop the skills needed to create structured and supportive environments where embodied experiences can unfold with intention, accountability, and care.

Consultants: Mentorship/Consultation

Consultants provide mentorship and professional consultation within the Therapeutic BDSM ecosystem. Unlike clinicians and facilitators, consultants are not responsible for facilitating scenes or providing clinical care. Instead, they serve as experienced advisors who help support professionals and participants working within the framework.

Consultants complete advanced training in Self-Reconciliation Therapy™ and Therapeutic BDSM™, developing a deeper understanding of the conceptual, ethical, and collaborative structures that guide the work. This training prepares consultants to offer guidance on topics such as power dynamics, trauma-aware practice, ethical considerations, and the practical application of the model.

Through consultation and mentorship, consultants may support clinicians, facilitators, educators, and clients navigating complex questions or situations within the ecosystem. Their role is to strengthen the network by providing informed perspective, professional support, and deeper insight into the framework.

Our Trainings

Self-Reconciliation Therapy

SRT training includes:

  • Understanding the psychological and somatic aspects of trauma
  • Training in BDSM as a tool for trauma integration
  • Learning how to facilitate scenes in collaboration with vetted pro practitioners
  • Expertise in self-regulation and boundary-setting
  • A focus on deep emotional healing and rescripting trauma narratives through therapeutic BDSM practices
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Applied Therapeutic BDSM

Applied Therapeutic BDSM training includes:

  • Understanding the therapeutic applications of BDSM practices
  • Learning how to facilitate consensual, pre-negotiated scenes that align with clinical goals
  • Gaining a deep understanding of trauma, triggers, and client regulation
  • Developing skills in boundary-setting, aftercare, and emotional integration for clients
  • Working collaboratively with clinicians to ensure the safety and efficacy of BDSM practices in therapy

Mastery of Framework

Consultants must demonstrate a strong understanding of the frameworks that guide the Therapeutic BDSM ecosystem. 

Consultants complete advanced training in Self-Reconciliation Therapy™ and Therapeutic BDSM™. This training deepens understanding of the conceptual foundations, ethical responsibilities, and collaborative processes that shape the work.

Through this training, consultants are prepared to provide mentorship, professional consultation, and informed perspective within the ecosystem. Their role is to help strengthen the integrity of the framework by supporting those engaged in the work. 

Mastery & Continuing Education

Regardless of the role you’re applying for, demonstrating mastery in your field is essential. Clinicians and kink professionals will need to showcase their expertise through training and practice, while consultants demonstrate mastery through advanced training in Self-Reconciliation Therapy™ and their ability to provide thoughtful mentorship, consultation, and guidance within the network.

Why Training Matters

At the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network, we are dedicated to ensuring that every interaction within our community is grounded in ethics, consent, and therapeutic intention. Our training programs not only provide the foundational knowledge you need but also ensure that you are fully equipped to provide safe and effective care to those seeking healing and personal growth through BDSM.

Upcoming Training Dates

Clinician/Consultation Training - HYBRID

Access to training begins August 29th  11am -2pm CST

Live Discussions are scheduled on the following dates 

  • September 12th and 26th
  • October 10th
  • November 7th and 21st
  • December 12th 
Facilitator Training - HYBRID

Access to training begins August 29th 12:30pm – 3:30pm CST

Live Discussions are scheduled on the following dates 

  • September 12th and 26th
  • October 10th
  • November 7th and 21st
  • December 12th 

The Investment in Your Professional Development: Training for the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network

The Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network (TBCN) is a professional community of clinicians, kink professionals, and educators committed to integrating the transformative potential of therapeutic BDSM with trauma-informed care. Entering this work requires depth, skill, and a commitment to ethical practice. TBCN provides the training, supervision, and structure needed to do this work with clarity and competence.

Training Investment

The training investment for all TBCN participants is $1,497. This includes:

• a comprehensive training manual
• live supervision
• access to the full TBCN curriculum
• structured guidance in the clinical and applied aspects of therapeutic BDSM

The live component is eligible for 18 NBCC Continuing Education Credits for clinicians.

Eligibility Requirements

Clinicians

Clinicians entering TBCN must already be kink-knowledgeable and able to demonstrate experience working with BDSM-identified clients. Those who do not yet have this foundation will need additional preparation before applying, ensuring clinical readiness and ethical competency within therapeutic BDSM. Power & Praxis may serve as a pathway.

Kink Professionals

Practitioners must demonstrate substantial experience in kink and power-exchange work. For those newer to the field, the CPKP program may serve as a pathway to eligibility. This training prepares practitioners to collaborate with clinicians in rescripting trauma and facilitating embodied transformation with precision and care.

Consultants 

Consultants must complete Self-Reconciliation Therapy certification and demonstrate significant experience in one or more relevant areas such as clinical practice, kink education, facilitation, or research.  This training prepares professionals to provide mentorship and consultation within the network and to support clinicians, facilitators, and clients working within the model.

Equity Rate

To support access for underrepresented and systemically marginalized practitioners, an equity rate of $997 is available.

Applications must be submitted at least two weeks before the training start date.

There is a 25 application fee, with a 5 fee for each additional application.

Join the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network Today

Embark on a transformative journey with the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network. Our community is dedicated to fostering healing, personal growth, and empowerment through ethical and therapeutic BDSM practices. Apply now to become a part of a network that prioritizes safety, consent, and professional excellence. Begin your path to making a meaningful impact in the lives of those seeking healing and empowerment.